“If only THAT person were out of my life, I would be happy”.

October 22, 2014


Have you ever had someone in your life that makes you think, “If only, THAT person were out of my life, I’d be happy”?

Most people have at least one person like that in their lives.

It seems to be part of what we experience here on earth, and offers an amazing opportunity for you to learn more about yourself like:

  • Appropriate relationship with the people in your life.
  • Awareness of how you select, distort and provoke certain experiences in your life.
  • Observing the kinds of choices that you are making.
  • The paradigm you are operating out of.
  • How you stimulate reactivity in your body.
  • Bing disgusted to get a “disgust fix”.
  • And more…

THE GOOD NEWS IS:  Having “THAT person” in your life offers you the opportunity to develop the inspiration, motivation and passion for getting free! And opportunity to commit and discover what it truly means to experience freedom from your inside out…YAY!

Back in the ’80’s, I read book that changed my life called ,”When Society Becomes an Addict”, by Ann Wilson Schaef.  Ann opened my eyes to the awareness of how most cultures, not only have chemical and alcohol addictions, that many of the addictions are what are often called “process addictions”.  Process addictions are experiences that trigger secretion of chemicals in your body and often becomes a habit to “use” as a “fix”.

For example:

I just worked with someone who seems to always have some dramatic scenario going on with one person or another.

In spending time with her and listening to how her experiences , she very accurately described what I just called a process addiction.

She said that, “When I’m in one of my dramatic scenarios my heart starts to beat faster and I feel adrenaline racing thru my body. I feel ‘high’ with emotion and am quickly distracted from everything else that is happening around me”.

And that’s exactly what addiction is!

Addiction is anything you “use and abuse” to distract, avoid and/or try to control about the reality of what happening in your life. And, if you are  like most people, you totally understand what I mean.

The wonderful thing is that, the nature of your being embodies a resolution for every challenge that you face in your life. You are designed to ask questions that ignites the universe to send a flood of answers on how to be the resolution for the changes that you want in your life.

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To freedom at your core,





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